Anything that is big enough to affect your life is worth examing. Growth hurts but do not let it hold you back.
We might not always be able to process life events in the present. However, if we can process them eventually we can often find previously unseen opportunities for personal growth, new pathways, and if needed healing.
Starting to leave small bits again, to get back to this. Life is sometimes a whirlwind that drags you away. You never know where the winds will take you.
Live Life. Why do we settle for less than what we are worth? Unfortunately the world is creating this notion of how life should be lived. Well, that is simply incorrect. You control how you live life, you are worth so much more than you give yourself credit for. Regardless of what happens, you have…
via Take Time Today and Live Life to the Fullest (3 Min Read) — The Evolutionary Mind
I spent all of my teen and adult years up until now suffering from frequent migraines. Nothing had worked up until this past week when I seemed to find a combination of things that helped me where nothing else ever had. First I felt relieved by this and then I felt appreciation.
Appreciation, because every day that I learn something new I am thankful. It doesn’t matter if it’s something small or something larger. It doesn’t matter if it’s something, like the migraine relief, that helps me personally or something that helps others. It could be something super useful, or it could just be something I find interesting.
If we leave ourselves open and receptive to new things and ideas instead of just going through the motions in life deciding we already know all we need, won’t life be more rewarding, more interesting, more satisfying? Every new piece of information could invariably lead us to new opportunities and rewards, spiritual and/or temporal. (Plus learning just for learning sake just feels good.)
Personally, the more I learn, the more complete I feel, and the more I understand the world, and myself.
Learn Perpetually and Grow Exponentially. Today. Tomorrow. Always.
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Redirection: Handle With Care
Sometimes it’s not us, but the people around us that are having a bad day. Our friends, family, the people closest to us. Sometimes they verbally direct their anger at us, even with it has nothing to do with us. For many of us, our first instinct is to yell back and get angry and well.
Handle With Care:
- First carefully, calmly and thoughtfully ask the person what thing/s happened to upset them.
- If they DON”T want to talk about it yet then don’t push them. (Something I need to work on because I’m a “Fixer.”)
- If they DO want to talk about it, just listen.
- Take a deep breath. (You need it, as much as they might.)
- Give them space for a few minutes to calm down.
- Return and kindly and calmly let them know that while you understand they are having a tough time you’d appreciate they not direct their anger at you.
- Give them more space.
- Depending on the nature of your relationship you may choose to help them with things not related to their problem to help ease tension. For example: If it is my SO’s turn to do the dishes or cook and they are having a crap day then I’ll just do it for them and they’ll return the favor later.
I understand that we all deal with stress differently and that what may not make me upset may make my friends and family upset. I’ve struggled in the past with being the sort of person, who just tried to fix everyone and everything and in the process just made it worse, because I was unable to recognize some people’s need for space and/or privacy even if was just a temporary thing. Also, I tended to react without listening fully.
I’ve been trying to apply these steps in my real life and I hope it helps some of you like it does me.
Life has thrown a curveball my way and I need to work at my day job 7 days a week at the moment. Hopefully this will change. Until then expect shorter posts, and you can always follow me on Twitter … @ConstantKarma
A big sign of personal growth is realizing that you are dealing with things in your life better than you used to, but realizing this only after the situation occurs or at least much further into it. (As opposed to actively having to figure out how to mentally handle every new thing at its start.)
When you work hard enough to be a better, kinder, more centered you, eventually it comes more easily.
I don’t just write about trying to live a better, more positive, freer, karma friendly life. I try to live it to the best of my own abilities. I’ve spent so much time, focusing on getting rid of negative thoughts, working towards better karma, happiness, and overall balance, that I can now do things that would have been much more challenging in the past, often without even thinking about them. I just start innately doing the best possible thing. Whether it’s being kind to people I’ve have issues with in the past or dealing with the big stuff life throws my way that I can’t control with as much grace and dignity as possible. (I’ve also seen a remarkable shift in my stress levels lowering.)
Be your own Architect, build your self up to be centered, clam and kind. Negativity is easy, but it will never very make you the best you can be.
Life isn’t just about the things we can control, and those we can’t control. It is about how we choose to view the world around us.
Nothing can do wonders quite like changing your outlook. I realize how much my life has changed from teaching myself to redirect negative thoughts and feelings and search for what else I may get out of a situation.
The more you inject positive and rational responses into your daily life, the easier it becomes and the lighter you feel.
Search for Opportunities where others see Roadblocks.
When I don’t know something, instead of getting defensive or frustrated, I use it as a chance to learn. If someone is cruel to me or hurts me. I use this as a chance to understand that person, understand humanity and myself.
Even if it’s a relationship that ends or a job. Instead of just being angry or sad, I now try focus on what good was in it. What did I learn from this? How will this help me be a better person and find a person or job that is better for me?
If I have a limitation or I am in some sort of minority group then I don’t look at myself as disadvantaged. Instead, I look at myself as being capable of being more kind and compassionate, because of the life and situations I’ve experienced.
I started with just dealing with the everyday small things more positively, to help me eventually tackle the bigger things.
Small, continually changes to into more positive perspective can change your life.
To attain good Karma you must put good energy into the universe.
Do not expect to have good things and energy come your way without effort.
Making sure you take care of yourself is a very important part of this.
If you do not take care of yourself and have good energy and within yourself, what you put back into the universe will be limited.
If you take care of yourself, the good energy you put back into the universe may be limitless.
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